yes, quark responded unprofessionally, but the mods are people too! they are not perfect.

and you're right, a lot of people requested to be warned for things that are not common or expected triggers. but you have no idea what those people have gone through. i'm not the couch cushion person but i can imagine several scenarios in which that might come to be a trigger for someone.

i acknowledge that i'm coming from a privileged position where my only 'triggers' are minor or extremely uncommon, but i don't understand how being requested to warn in fanworks for a variety of things is offensive to people with "legitimate triggers".